Living a Self-Sustained Life: A Journey of Purpose and Contribution
By Arva Kapasi
Editor’s Note: A beautiful reflection on the potential for all people to make positive contributions and lead a fuller life – indeed, gain the good things of life. If organizations are going to be a catalyst for this, they must also learn and grow.
In a world bustling with activity and endless pursuits, the idea of living a meaningful life often becomes overshadowed by the rush to meet basic needs. However, true fulfillment comes not just from survival but from purpose, contribution, and connection. This is the story of Mohammed Shamsher and his wife, Munira – a testament to the power of resilience, independence, and the human spirit’s capacity to thrive.
At the heart of their journey lies a beautiful truth: the essence of life is not measured by wealth or external success but by the ability to engage with others, share one’s unique gifts, and find joy in small victories. Mohammed, a creative soul at 60, and Munira, a determined individual navigating life with cerebral palsy, embody this philosophy. Despite their challenges, they strive to live a life that is not only self-sustained but also enriched with purpose and dignity.
Their path took a transformative turn when they joined the Pathways Foundation. For Mohammed, designing unique envelopes became more than just an artistic pursuit—it was a source of pride and independence. With the Foundation’s support, his creations were sold, allowing him to earn a modest income and, more importantly, a sense of accomplishment. Munira, though limited by motor difficulties, found her own rhythm by braiding fabric for rugs and mats. Together, they celebrated each other’s achievements, proving that even small steps can lead to profound impacts. They look forward to coming to work at the Pathways Foundation center every day, deriving great satisfaction from their roles.
As those of us who support them are learning, both from the amazing changes happening within our lifetimes in the hearts and minds of Indian people, as well as from what we are learning about how to include vulnerable people into everyday life, there indeed is room for everyone. All we need to do is move over and make a welcoming space. These are important lessons for the new era which is upon us.
Their newfound confidence extended beyond the Foundation. Actively participating in their community and religious activities, they became advocates of inclusion and self-sufficiency. By sharing their creations and engaging with others, they demonstrated that everyone, regardless of their circumstances, has something valuable to offer.
Their story reminds us that life’s essence lies in belonging and contribution. In a society that often equates success with productivity, Mohammed and Munira challenge the norm by showing that true success is rooted in the joy of giving and the courage to embrace one’s journey. They inspire us to look beyond limitations, celebrating the triumphs that come from perseverance and community support.
As we reflect on their journey, let us remember that living a self-sustained life goes beyond independence—it is about creating a space where we can thrive, connect, and leave a meaningful mark. Through their resilience, Mohammed and Munira have redefined what it means to live with purpose, reminding us all that our contributions, no matter how small, can light the way for others.